Lynette “Polly” McFadden – Excerpt from the Book – Go Girl Go!

February 11th, 2010

1 Lynette cLynette “Polly” McFadden – Harcourts Real Estate

Lynette, known as Polly to her friends, is a vibrant Maori woman successfully operating several Harcourts real estate offices in the Christchurch area.  A working class background hasn’t stopped her from becoming one of Christchurch’s hottest businesswomen.  Not content with her own success, she shares her positive energy with all around her, inspiring others to succeed and grow into whatever they wish to become.

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Trust Your Gut!

February 8th, 2010

Often the most important decisions we make in our lives can be the toughest to make.  There is no end of outside influence that can affect our decisions: friends, family, colleagues, professional experts, the media, the Internet… and the list goes on.  A good decision though, is the one that is right for us, personally.  To help us make our own right decisions, we each have three different internal decision making tools we can consult: our head, our heart, and our gut.  The best decisions are made when all three are in line, wanting the same thing.

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What Drives You? – Pleasure Versus Pain

February 8th, 2010

Every single thing that we do is driven psychologically by a basic desire to either gain pleasure, or avoid pain.  This is very useful to know if you’re trying to change aspects of your life, because if you can change your thinking, then your doing will naturally change as well.

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Fiona Tomlinson Photography

February 5th, 2010

fiona-tomlinson-professional-photographer-aucklandI have used many professional photographers over the years and Fiona Tomlinson is by far the best of them, hands down, in terms of both her photography and her personal and professional approach.

I first met Fiona through the Woman’s Day when she photographed me for my new magazine column. She has since done five shoots for me: a mix of magazine shots, professional branding photos and portraits of me and my daughter, Samantha.

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Louise Rutten – Excerpt from the Book – Go Girl Go!

February 3rd, 2010

Louise RutterLouise Rutten -Inkspot Digital Ltd

Louise is the driving force behind Inkspot Digital Ltd – an Auckland based IT / Animation / Entertainment company leading the world in computer animation. This small youthful company works alongside big players such as Microsoft and shows the world what a couple of Kiwi’s can achieve when the put their minds to it. For Louise, the secrets to success don’t lie behind a university degree or loads of investment capital – success comes from lots of hard work, personality, and undying belief in your idea.

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Saying ‘No” – the Power of a 2 Letter Word

February 1st, 2010

How often do you say “yes” when you really mean “no”?  Do you run yourself ragged trying to get things done that you agreed to but didn’t want to do in the first place?  Do you wonder why you have no time and energy left for the things that are important to you?  Do you worry about letting other people down?  Do you wonder why on earth you said “yes” in the first place? 

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Damage Control – Surviving Your Mistakes

January 20th, 2010

Mistakes are an essential part of the learning process and an inevitable part of life.  We all make mistakes, but some of them are bigger and have more serious consequences than others, especially if they involve our work or our personal relationships.  So how can we make the most of our mistakes and learn from them rather than being crippled and devastated by them?

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Jane Lucas – Excerpt from the Book – Go Girl Go!

January 20th, 2010

2 Jane Lucas bJane Lucas – BJ’s Health & Fitness Centres Ltd

Jane started her career as a farmer’s wife teaching a few local ladies aerobics in the country.  Thirteen years later she’s recognised as a successful businesswoman, owning and operating three health & fitness centres in the Nelson / Marlborough region.

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Is Your Fabulous Lifestyle Getting in the Way of Your Fantastic Life?

January 20th, 2010

There is actually a big difference between having a great lifestyle and a great life – but the two can easily become confused.

“Lifestyle” refers to things we buy to decorate our lives. Through our lifestyle choices we can buy an identity through brands. We can define how other people perceive us, so it can be a way of gaining acceptance and approval from them. A common term for this is “keeping up with the Joneses”. We want to control what people think of us and it can be tempting to do this through making sure we have the right “things” in order to be regarded in a certain way.

Your “life” on the other hand, is what you lead when you know what is important to you and you let that control your behaviour. Your life is made up of your choices and actions. Through our “life” we can create our own self esteem and pride through being true to our selves.

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Create The Vision For Your Ideal Life!

January 15th, 2010

The very first step in creating your ideal life is to get very clear on what it looks like. This isn’t rocket science, it’s just much easier to get what you want if you know what that is.

Take some time to sit down and really think about this. If you could have your ideal life in 3, 6 or even 12 months time, what does it look like? Where are you living? What are you doing? Who is around you? What do you do in your spare time? How much money do you have? What do you look like? Read More